

Former First Lady Michelle Obama remains candid about the ups and downs they’ve faced throughout their journey together, particularly during the years that saw Barack rise from community organizer to commander-in-chief.
In recent interviews and speaking appearances, Michelle has offered a rare behind-the-scenes look at her marriage, including the work it takes to maintain a healthy relationship while under the microscope of global fame, political pressure, and parenting.
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“I was mad,” Michelle admitted, reflecting on the early stages of motherhood when she found herself shouldering most of the responsibilities at home.
“When you get married and have kids, your whole plan, once again, gets upended. Especially if you get married to somebody who has a career that swallows up everything, which is what politics is.”
Choosing love daily and the power of counseling
Despite the strain, Michelle has never stopped believing in the power of marriage – but she’s quick to point out it’s not the fairy tale many imagine.
“Marriage is a choice you make every day,” she explained. “You don’t do it because it’s easy. You do it because you believe in it. You believe in the other person.
“That’s why it’s so important to marry somebody that you respect. It’s important to marry somebody who is your equal, and to marry somebody and to be with somebody who wants you to win as much as you want them to win.”
Even with that foundation, there were moments when frustration threatened to boil over. Michelle once joked about her darkest thoughts during a particularly difficult time: “There were times she ‘wanted to push Barack out of the window.'”
While humorous in delivery, the quote underscores the reality that even the strongest marriages can reach breaking points.
When things came to a head, she turned to marriage counseling. At first, Michelle believed the problem lay solely with her husband.
“I was one of those wives who thought, ‘I’m taking you to marriage counseling so you can be fixed, Barack Obama,'” she laughed. “Because I was like, ‘I’m perfect.’ I was like, ‘Doctor X, please fix him.’
“He started looking over at me [in the sessions]. I was like, ‘Why are you talking to me?… He’s the problem.
“It taught me to take control of my own happiness within our marriage, instead of expecting Barack to magically change everything. Counseling helped me to look at, ‘How do I take care of myself in our partnership?’ But it’s hard. It’s hard to blend two lives together. It’s hard for us too, but I wouldn’t trade it.”
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